Catharine Blake

Certified Divorce Coach

My Story and Why I do What I Do

Being a Divorce Coach and coming from a background as a Child and Family Psychotherapist; I have personally and professionally witnessed the damage that a divorce can do – financially, emotionally, and mentally.

My personality, early traumas and experiences led me to seek out relationships with narcissistic men. I did not have the knowledge nor the self-esteem to know what I was doing wrong nor why I kept making the same bad relationship decisions.

When it came to my divorce; even as a trained psychotherapist with decades of experience under my belt; I was shocked to learn how difficult and challenging the divorce process was. I naively went into it thinking it would be easy as we did not have many assets to argue over. I realized too late that I had absolutely NO idea what I was doing. I even went into the research only to find a lack of any useful information on the topic at all!

My not-knowing, ended up costing me thousands in legal fees. I did not understand the divorce process nor what my options were and my attorney certainly did not enlighten me.

Years of therapy, coaching, research, wisdom and HEALING have led me to  a wonderful and peaceful place in my life. I work hard in helping others; both men and women. I spend quality time with my beautiful daughter. At any given moment you can find me, hiking a mountain, travelling off on some new adventure, bonding with friends, watching live music and learning new skills. I now live life to the fullest and have found my Best Self and my Best Relationships!

And now my journey has led me to YOU! I want to ease the pain of YOUR divorce and walk with you from the beginning to the end of your process.  You are just beginning one of the greatest transformations in your life; if you manage it well!


My philosophy

I strongly believe that the divorce process needs to change. It should not be such a mystery!

I want to arm you with knowledge and power so that you can make the best logical decisions that make sense not just for the RIGHT NOW but for the rest of your life!